tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post2630282520676552258..comments2024-02-24T07:13:08.540-06:00Comments on Dining With Monkeys: DisclaimerStacey Greenberghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14716896540454461639noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-42129063634848648482012-12-12T09:20:58.187-06:002012-12-12T09:20:58.187-06:00The owners of Sharon's are particularly parano...The owners of Sharon's are particularly paranoid and sensitive which I think inhibits a lot of what they are capable of. Having been on the other side of the counter (for a very short time) I can attest that they are not particularly customer service oriented or business-minded. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-5806208036421123692012-11-29T13:37:35.381-06:002012-11-29T13:37:35.381-06:00Somebody needs Prozac. That is all I can surmise a...Somebody needs Prozac. That is all I can surmise after reading your review.Queen of the Kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08583228967831942586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-19982574067746011572012-11-26T19:06:35.530-06:002012-11-26T19:06:35.530-06:00I just read the original review as well. I can'...I just read the original review as well. I can't believe they thought that was a bad review. It's very sad that they chose to behave that way toward you - whether they liked the review or not. You would think they would want an opportunity to prove you wrong, if that's what they really thought! It seems as if they have a few issues.... <br /><br />I'm glad that you chose to write about your experience. I know I will not spend my money at a business with owners that choose to treat their customers (even a reviewer) that way. <br /><br />Your reviews are always pleasant and you never criticize harshly. Keep up the good work!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-10453586014685149812012-11-26T16:05:28.565-06:002012-11-26T16:05:28.565-06:00"I'm surprised that neither you nor Sharo..."I'm surprised that neither you nor Sharon and her husband took the high road in this matter."<br /><br />she was publicly embarrassed and refused service because they didn't like a review from -what was it- 2 _years_ ago. Goodness! <br /><br />her response after being kicked out is this post about the experience, telling of her shock at the treatment. these days, are businesses surprised when their actions are discussed online?<br /><br />i think she _has_ taken the high road! what would you have had her do?<br /><br />btw, if you google "good grief, poot whistle" this post is the sole search result. nice! :)Divers and Sundryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01759655568104782267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-4408306642612714632012-11-26T15:24:17.718-06:002012-11-26T15:24:17.718-06:00Hey Stacey,
I have been reading your blog for abo...Hey Stacey,<br /><br />I have been reading your blog for about 2 years now. No kids but my husband and I love your insight. I'm sorry you had a bad experience at Sharon's, I only went there after your review and it has since become a favorite. I've met Sharon and her husband many times since and they're a nice couple. I'm surprised that neither you nor Sharon and her husband took the high road in this matter. Just as they have a 'right' to refuse service due to a perceived slight, you have the 'right' to cause their business some amount of harm from the 'disclaimer' review with their names highlighted. But an "eye for an eye, makes the whole world blind' - Ghandi. <br /><br />I'm going to continue visiting Sharon's and continue reading your blog. I hope you both can find forgiveness and move on. godawgshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03159018715718256417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-40798797882860175492012-11-26T14:29:21.247-06:002012-11-26T14:29:21.247-06:00Much ado about nothing from where I sit. I starte...Much ado about nothing from where I sit. I started reading your blog a couple years ago and have enjoyed it. I agree most of your "negative" comments are constructive. I am childless but think many of the characteristics of "family friendly" restaurants are also desirable to those like me...good service, adequate space, clean restrooms, fair prices, etc. Please carry on.<br /><br />Poot Whistle...you need to lighten up.Mark Bourlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16050696841650616693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-63670968522558952152012-11-22T13:30:05.944-06:002012-11-22T13:30:05.944-06:00and you are giving poot whistles a bad name...and you are giving poot whistles a bad name...bumhornnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-76263710345318805272012-11-21T14:28:59.658-06:002012-11-21T14:28:59.658-06:00You guys are giving Stacey and her blog's powe...You guys are giving Stacey and her blog's power entirely too much credit...<br />Poot Whistlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-37127696454883043612012-11-21T13:52:43.019-06:002012-11-21T13:52:43.019-06:00I read the original review and found it innocuous-...I read the original review and found it innocuous- certainly it wouldn't have deterred me from trying the restaurant, but I didn't think twice about it. Now, however, I've shared the story of the extraordinary actions of the owner with at least a dozen people.<br /><br />The fact that the owner clearly felt that it was okay to harass a customer- any customer- speaks for itself. I look forward to reading the inevitable news of their closure.<br /><br />(As an aside to Stacey, I'd request from Blogger & log the ISP addresses of the extraordinarily hateful commentor above. They pretty clearly originate with the angry owner, and might be useful if he continues to harass you. Good grief poot whistle, indeed!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-7226573942147009272012-11-21T05:11:20.876-06:002012-11-21T05:11:20.876-06:00"Good Grief, Poot Whistle!" is my new ca..."Good Grief, Poot Whistle!" is my new catch-phrase.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-69502646671723143762012-11-20T15:32:34.261-06:002012-11-20T15:32:34.261-06:00Good grief, Poot Whistle. I have at no time asked ...Good grief, Poot Whistle. I have at no time asked anyone to boycott this business. I did not ask for special treatment. I simply ordered lunch.Stacey Greenberghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08067384545487563830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-89497729623755087992012-11-20T15:27:29.790-06:002012-11-20T15:27:29.790-06:00You have to be kidding. “Verbally assaulted” is su...You have to be kidding. “Verbally assaulted” is such a loaded, useless phrase. It’s obvious you’re trying to trump up the seriousness of what went down. It’s their business; they didn’t want you in it; they don’t have to give you a reason why. He was candid about the reason to your face, just like you asked him to be in this “disclaimer,” but what did you do? You ran back to your blog to publicly throw the restaurant owners under the bus and get your little peanut gallery of friends to coddle you and your damaged pride. <br /><br />If you must post a “disclaimer,” which this current blog post clearly is not, make sure it outlines the intention of your blog. Your current disclaimer is blatant tattling about the event, and your desired result is to have your readers boycott the restaurant. A disclaimer for your blog should state that you do not follow the standard criteria of journalistic restaurant reviews, and this blog is merely a vehicle to promote yourself as some self-prescribed, local personality who’s entitled to special treatment upon recognition.<br />Poot Whistlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-33195421350497929782012-11-20T15:09:32.609-06:002012-11-20T15:09:32.609-06:00See, Anon, that just makes me want to kiss you/buy...See, Anon, that just makes me want to kiss you/buy you a drink/go out for lunch. Good one.Stacey Greenberghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08067384545487563830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-59786066146926551742012-11-20T15:04:34.523-06:002012-11-20T15:04:34.523-06:00I can't stand you and your family because you ...I can't stand you and your family because you seem so needy and desperately self-promotional.<br />I agree 100% that the guy overreacted to your 'review' as it were. SHAME ON HIM.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-67537459318361633742012-11-20T10:58:54.024-06:002012-11-20T10:58:54.024-06:00I've been enjoying your blog for a few years n...I've been enjoying your blog for a few years now. I've never found one of your "reviews" to be overly negative - including the one in question here. <br /><br />I will say that I'm still going to give Sharon's the benefit of the doubt - because I still want to try them. <br />Maybe the guy was just having a horrible day. That doesn't give him the right to lash out at you. But I would hate for a person to lose business over a one-time mistake - even though it was a terrible mistake.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-59424091331765493372012-11-20T10:16:33.371-06:002012-11-20T10:16:33.371-06:00I have known Sharon for about 5 years now, from he...I have known Sharon for about 5 years now, from her days selling at the local farmers markets, before she had her own shop. I have always known Sharon to be nothing but lovely and kind, and am shocked and saddened to hear about what her husband said to you. I stop into her shop every few months to buy truffles or take a pizza to go and we have a friendly chat about family and what's new and she always remembers what we talked about the last time, even if months have gone by. I agree with other posters, I find nothing offensive in your review and in fact feel that your comments then still hold true today. I also agree that I have never read any review by you of any restaurant that is out of line or offensive. As someone who has known Sharon and her husband for a while now, I believe that this behavior is not the norm. And I hope that there can be resolution and forgiveness from both sides. And that maybe his behavior can be chalked up to having a really bad day.Lauranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-30789090056920785162012-11-20T09:58:38.180-06:002012-11-20T09:58:38.180-06:00Ok people, this isn't the Commercial Appeal. M...Ok people, this isn't the Commercial Appeal. Move along with the anonymous hating.Stacey Greenberghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08067384545487563830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-51163864507836364522012-11-20T09:56:46.712-06:002012-11-20T09:56:46.712-06:00irst, that review did not "blast them". ...irst, that review did not "blast them". it wasn't even a bad review. sheesh, people are awfully tetchy...<br /><br />The owner perceived it as a blast or poor review. And you are right Ms. Greenberg isn't a professional restaurant reviewer nor a professional journalist. <br /><br />What was your second point since you used "first"?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-67083038021913620742012-11-20T09:50:57.833-06:002012-11-20T09:50:57.833-06:00I agree that it wasn't a bad review of his res...I agree that it wasn't a bad review of his restaurant and that he seems strangely out of line in the level of overreaction to it. Your food blogging has never even come close to being perceived as serious food writing, so in a way I think its kind of a compliment that such a redneck as he would take your writing to heart. If you played this correctly, you may have finally found an audience worthy of your talents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-46170514365275314892012-11-20T09:46:43.510-06:002012-11-20T09:46:43.510-06:00anonymous wrote, "Whatever place blasted you ...anonymous wrote, "Whatever place blasted you has just as much right to do so as you do to blast them on your award-winning blog."<br /><br />first, that review did not "blast them". it wasn't even a bad review. sheesh, people are awfully tetchy...<br /><br />and of course they have a right to "blast" her, but actions have consequences. <br /><br />in this case, because the blogger gets treated without any respect and is refused service, she can write a post describing a much more negative experience than her actual review did. <br /><br />the shop owner has a right to treat customers like dirt, but that doesn't mean it makes good business sense.<br /><br />i'm not likely to go to a place where there's a risk i'll be made a public spectacle of because of some perceived fault. <br /><br />i'm just thinkin' a business owner could get better press using a response more like, "oh, i recognize you. i'm sorry your last experience wasn't fantastic and hope you'll enjoy yourself more this time. thx for giving us a second chance."Divers and Sundryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01759655568104782267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-73634322345401725392012-11-20T09:30:50.185-06:002012-11-20T09:30:50.185-06:00Whatever place blasted you has just as much right ...Whatever place blasted you has just as much right to do so as you do to blast them on your award-winning blog. It's called freedom. I feel sorry for fellow diners who are subjected to your children. And as for not being compensated for your blogging-I bet you save all those receipts and try to write off all those meals. You are not the victim as your proclaim. Real writers don't mind being controversial.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-31831140777637527732012-11-20T01:08:37.447-06:002012-11-20T01:08:37.447-06:00I enjoy reading your blog and frequently check you...I enjoy reading your blog and frequently check your review before trying someplace new to me. As a parent of two children, I appreciate reading a review that does more than simply tell me if the food is award worthy. Thank you for your dedication to this blog.<br /><br />And, as others have said, I will make sure to avoid this restaurant because of the owner's attitude. There is a right way and a wrong way to express disappointment to a person, and this restaurant chose the wrong way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-43970549097068380102012-11-19T18:25:19.666-06:002012-11-19T18:25:19.666-06:00I agree that it was not a bad review. What's w...I agree that it was not a bad review. What's wrong with this chick? I definitely won't be trying this place out - unless and until she offers you an apology. <br />Your reviews are always positive - so I am sure that if you have something bad to say - you don't say anything. I enjoy your reviews - and look forward to each and every one! Keep doing what you do! You rock!!!MamaJolleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01571535315163820568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-32971063166019337952012-11-19T16:55:47.184-06:002012-11-19T16:55:47.184-06:00What Chip said!What Chip said!Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15654898499942453513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20107958.post-2462250392661816992012-11-19T16:40:30.595-06:002012-11-19T16:40:30.595-06:00I imagine Sharon's got some business from the ...I imagine Sharon's got some business from the exposure in the initial blog post, and I imagine that they just lost the business of everyone who has ever read DWM.Chip Chockleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02698215781177335480noreply@blogger.com